I'm a traditionalist so I would go with eWj. Another possibility for towels is to get his and hers towels and get them monogrammed with each of your initials instead of a combined monogram.
eWj. for sure.
jWe looks a little too much like JEW. And I know that applies to you but you probably don't want it on your towels. :)
I think eWj looks better and I like the tradition :)
well I think jWe looks better but that's just because THAT IS MY MONOGRAM! hahaha. but traditionally it should be eWj. i guess I am kind of biased though!